Relationships never end without signs of trouble. Any signs of trouble in a relationship are danger warning signs. The following may be danger warning signs:

You are happier when your partner is away.

You enjoy the company of third parties more than your partner's company.

Reduced number of phone calls or e-mails.

Lack of open and honest communication.

  "Now the man and his wife were both naked but they felt no shame" Gen 2:25

  "At that moment their eyes were opened, and they suddenly felt shame of their nakedness.  So they sewed fig leaves together to cover themselves" Gen 3:7

The following may be danger warning signs:

Being secretive.

Checking and tracking.

Controlling behaviour.

Critical attitude.

Sexist attitude.



Unexplained silence.


Innocent statements are misquoted, misinterpreted and repeated incorrectly forever.

Most of the issues that come up between you remain unresolved. Your self-esteem has plummeted since you have been together. You are drawn more to things outside your relationship. No mutual reciprocation of love.

Spending nights away without bothering to let your partner know (couples).



Temper outbursts;

  "Do not make friends with a hot-tempered man, do not associate with one easily angered, or you may learn his ways and get yourself ensnared" Prov 22:24-25.

There is little or no sexual relationship (couples).

You don't trust one another and feel suspicious.

You feel trapped.

You complain frequently to others about your relationship.

Sudden changes in appearance/dressing.

You can't remember what attracted you to your partner in the first place.

You regret being in the relationship
It is better to dissolve a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship than to dissolve a marriage. If you are having difficulties in your marriage, do not look outside your marriage as a place to solve them.  You must look within the marriage and turn to your spouse to find ways to get it better.